Saturday, June 14, 2025
On a beautiful late Spring day when the country was in the midst of "No King Protest Marches" and a controversial, costly Military Parade in Washington D.C., easily the number one memory of the day will forever be the bizarre turn of events at today's wedding ceremony in Seattle.
To review the basics, long time friends Mark and Susie Johnson's oldest daughter, Sophia, was scheduled to exchange her wedding vows today with fellow biblical studies scholar Nick Posegay. The couple met while they were both attending Cambridge University in England while attaining their prestigious PhD degrees.
They have spent the last year and a half working, studying and writing at Ruhr University in Bochum, Germany.
This was going to be their day and a source of great enjoyment, fulfillment and pride, for especially the parents of the bride and groom.
Nick's family and friends who are based in the Chicago area and Sophia's college friends from Biola University in California made up the majority of the approximately 100 guests.
Unfortunately, only one of their myriad of European friends accepted their invitation to the wedding sighting fear of what the Trump Administration's policies have turned America into these troubled days.
In typical Johnson family style, no expense was spared to make the day memorable.
And it would be, just not for the reason we all thought.
But let's start at the beginning . . .
Our five person volunteer slave
labor crew reported to the Johnson
ancestral family castle at 6:30 a.m.
Our fun filled crew once again included Lindy, Dori, Mary Ruth, Laurie and myself for third straight day of intense work.
While we were organizing and moving flowers and all sorts of wedding day curios to the nearby wedding site, the Seattle Yacht Club, several rowers were out for a workout along the Montlake Cut that borders the Johnson's property.
What a beautiful setting for a
cup of morning coffee
We made SEVERAL trips to the Yacht
Club to set up all of the decorations
before the wedding ceremony
Back at the Johnson Home breakfast
was being served for the wedding
party and our crackerjack work crew
Bride Sophia was soon to have
her hair and makeup done in the
Johnson Manor's living room
As were all of the bride's maids
The setting for the wedding and
dinner al fresco were perfect!
Proud Dad Mark reflecting on
the day just hours before Zero Hour
Besides transporting the decorations and setting them up at the Yacht Club, my duties today included two trips to the market to purchase needed supplies for the big breakfast which turned out to be delicious!
Laurie joined me for the ride to the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in downtown Seattle to deliver a bottle of champagne and a large basket of flowers to be in the room when the newly married couple arrived tonight to spend their wedding night in the lap of luxury. By the way, this is the same hotel that housed Mark and Susie on their wedding night 30+ years ago.
My final madcap drive was a last second one to the Best Buy store in the Northgate Mall to buy some specialized cord that our wedding announcer needed to connect his phone to the Yacht Club's P.A. system. He could not get it as it was time for the wedding pictures and he was a groomsman.
Life on this work crew is never dull.
4:00 p.m., time to head to . . .
. . . the Seattle Yacht Club . . .
. . . which has several impressive
trophy cases
I love it when a plan comes together!
Laurie looked GREAT!
I felt like a banker with that coat and tie that I was wearing.
The weeding area looked good
Sophia's mother, Susie, on the left
with Sophia's surrogate "Grandma" Liz
A poignant and thoughtful moment to be sure.
Anchors Away!
Let's get the show on the road
Susie and guests milling about
just before the ceremony started
Then it got a tad whacky.
All the guests were finally seated including the all of the groomsmen and the bride's maids who did not enter in the traditional procession down the aisle. That was odd.
Four people then walked up the white rose petal laden center aisle, Nick's grandfather, Nick's mother, Nick and Susie but there was no padre, rabbi or officiant at the end of the aisle to greet them.
That was odd.
Finally, Mark and Sophia entered down a slight hill with Sophia beaming and Mark looking quite somber. He proceeded to walk Sophia down the aisle with a smile. To be emotional at your daughter's wedding is indeed normal but Mark also had a strange look on his face for some unknown reason.
That was odd.
As Mark handed Sophia's hand to Nick for the start of the marital rite, there was still no padre, rabbi or officiant in sight.
That was odd.
Nick then took the microphone to announce that "There would be no wedding today."
That was more than just odd.
Then Nick quickly announced to the all of the stunned people in attendance that four days after they got engaged in Europe they got married. That happened 18 months ago and absolutely none of their friends or family had a clue until Nick's message to us.
Now we were in the world of the truly bizarre.
No one except for Mark. Sophia had told him just as they were about to walk down the hill, hence the pained expression on Mark's face.
That was heartbreaking for me.
We were all still stunned but that was the end of the "ceremony."
That was exceedingly odd.
On to the reception . . .
Mark made a great speech
Mallory was the Maid of Honor and
is Sophia's younger sister
She did a splendid job bringing much needed humor to the evening's festivities.
Sophia talked to the assembled
multitudes after dinner
She announced that since Nick and Sophia love pancakes, we would be having a Pancake Bar feast instead of the traditional wedding cake for our dessert tonight.
I had a deuce of chocolate chip ones,
YUM!
Some extra toppings for the
pancakes was a good touch
Susie and Mark discussing the
day's events with their friend Janice
The dance floor indoors was
jumping but not for the work crew
While the wedding party and guests were performing their best dance moves, our work crew (Laurie, Dori, Lindy and yours truly) were busy breaking down all of the decorations from the now empty outdoor dining area.
We are a strong band of dedicated, underpaid peons who love our roles in these dangerous days of ICE raids.
This will be a much discussed and remembered day by all of us in attendance to be sure.
No, really,
THAT WAS ODD.
Mark included this all important
message in his talk
Finally, from today's net . . .
We do and this is ABSOLUTELY true!